A guy who just ghosted me has recently risen from the dead. After three weeks of not talking (he allegedly was on vacation, but due to my social media sleuthing, I found out that he had only been gone for a few days), he randomly texted me and decided to ask me out again. When it comes to flaky, inconsistent men, what are you supposed to do when he ghosts you and comes back? To me, this is a phenomenon that we shouldn’t let slide. And oh, I should mention that before this guy texted me, he friend-requested me on Facebook, and when I didn’t accept his offer, then he put in the effort to contact me.

This actually seems to be a frequent phenomenon. Recently, another guy I went on a date with NINE months ago texted me saying, “Hey, sorry it took me a while to text you again.” A while? It’s almost been…